It is6:20 PM and I am seated in the hockey arena where my daughter will be graduating in a ceremony starting at 7:30. It may sound over eager…and I suppose it is, but as I look around the main good seating areas are full, with occasional spots that look open but which are being saved. My husband will arrive sometime in around an hour, probably just after the National Anthem.
As my daughter and I were driving in she commented that I always had to be early, her father often late, and that she gets anxious whether early or late. She likes to be on time. It is a bit like the 3 bears and she, like baby bear and Goldilocks needs it just right!
It reminds me a bit of Jesus’ story. Many of his followers, especially Judas, wanted him to hurry up and march on Jerusalem to take over his kingdom. Some tried to convince him not to go at all because they were afraid he woukd be hurt or worse. Jesus, and by definition God, knew the right time and could be neither hurried nor deterred!
Timing is critical in all things, but stressed as we may get on either side of the right time, we don’t have control. It is the learning to let go that is the challenge. In the meantime I’ll people watch when I’m early, my husband will calmly leave in his own time and my daughter, until she gets a car, will be stuck with one of us or the other.